The art and science of getting unstuck… aka ALLOWING
Can I really promise that I’ll take you to freedom? That I can take you to unstuck and moving?
It may be that I have bit off more than I can chew.
This feeling of being stuck, maybe even being trapped, the inability to move, the feeling that there is no place to go…
I just got this email from the Author of Feelings, and Words, and recently of Worlds…
From my vantage point, this ‘being stuck’ is a symptom of ‘need for effective action’ is a real need that for most people is unfulfilled. When we want to move somewhere, but we don’t see that we can, we don’t see that we are allowed, we don’t see that we have enough talent or enough energy to do so. ~ Margoczi
The way he says it: the lack of movement, even though there is sense that movement is needed. Needed by the person, not the circumstance.
That ‘I am not at the right place, not doing the right thing’ feeling. Horrible… devastating.
The feelings is that we can’t do what we would need to do because the freedom to do is missing. Or the talent and ability is missing. Or the energy to do what we’d like to do is missing.
His message adds a lot of shades to this whole topic of ‘stuck’.
And you can see, his message adds to the feeling that we are not free. No matter how many degrees we have, no matter how many companies we own, no matter who our spouse is… The feeling is that we are somehow entrapped by all those missings… like Gulliver in Lilliput got entrapped by those flimsy threads.
None of the threads that holds us hostage is strong enough, but the many threads seem to tie up securely to the ‘trap’.
My hunch is that my challenge isn’t to see that it all goes back to the need to be special and unique. My challenge, I think, will be to make you see it.
That as long as you think that real, as long as you think that valid, I cannot help you. I cannot help you to liberate yourself. To do what you see fit to do. To see that all those threads you blame that hold you back are not real. That for someone who isn’t special, who doesn’t entertain the idea that they should already know something they don’t, of be already somewhere where they aren’t BECAUSE they are special, for someone like that it is no problem to do what they see to do.
One student who years ago allowed me to guide her to do collages, really elaborate collages to activate her Sight capacity writes today:
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Dear Sophie,
I have been seeing wrong, especially wrong because I don’t know things. I am learning to set up new machines. My mentor/trainer said to my boss that I learn differently from her previous student. Slower. I am slower. I made it wrong. But looking at it, when it is wrong, I don’t want to review and work at it. It tangles me up, in wrongness and judgement, because I should know how to do it.
So I said, I don’t know how to do it, someone else was faster. My internal dialogue ‘Well fuck them. I am almost 62 and I has the guts to
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